What is it about Near/Far & Explosives that really pisses you of?

For me, the fact that everyone has a SMAW or shotgun at almost all times.

Then idiots blow themselves up to kill me...or we kill eachother w/ the shotgun...
It's so annoying, I have a good streak and no deaths, and then out of nowhere Mr.Ford suicides while killing me...

First of all, it is the fact that nobody needs to aim. It's for the people who have no real skill and like being able to get a kill without even shooting at the person. It is basically the same with Near/Far. With the SPAS, especially canceling, people don't really need to aim at the head. Although N/F is fun when you can pick up a SR and destroy those with the SPAS before they can kill you. I don't mind N/F as much because it gives great distancing practice and you don't die as quickly.